Ep 825 What If It Doesn’t Work? The Vulnerability Hangover After Betting on Yourself
You launched the offer, made the investment, raised the price, announced the goal, started the business, or finally put yourself out there. You expected to feel empowered afterward. Instead, you’re questioning everything you were certain about days ago and wondering whether you completely overestimated yourself.
That’s the vulnerability hangover, and it can hit hard when you’re making a major identity shift. Your brain doesn’t have the outcome yet, so it starts searching for evidence. You check the numbers more frequently. You analyze people’s reactions. You compare your results to someone else’s. Before long, “I don’t know how this is going to turn out yet” becomes “I think I made a mistake.”
This is where fear of failure becomes especially convincing because it can start sounding like logic, intuition, or even good business strategy.
In this episode, I’m breaking down what happens when you’re caught in that uncomfortable space between making the decision and getting the evidence, why being seen trying can feel so vulnerable, and what to do before self-doubt convinces you to abandon something that hasn’t had enough time to work.