What to Do When You aren’t Sure Where to Even Begin and You’re Feeling Stuck EP189


I have three lies and a truth for you today.

The most common things I hear coming out of people’s mouths who so badly have a dream they want to achieve, are all lies that they believe are 100% FACTS.

“I’m just feeling so stuck on what to do…” = LIE

“I’m not sure where to even begin or how to start” = LIE

“I’m just blocked right now, I will do _____ when I’m clear”  = LIE

Now insert, “but Tiffany, you don’t understand… blah blah blah”

I have no doubt that you are REALLY feeling this way, because you believe this to be true, and you keep repeating this to yourself and others, so of course you are going to feel what you repeatedly think and say.

But here’s the truth in all of this…

You buying into and giving energy to these “I’m stuck,” “I’m confused,” and “I’m blocked” declarations, will IN FACT keep you from moving forward.

The truth is, part of you doesn’t want to move forward because you are scared. Moving forward means actually taking the risk, putting yourself out there, investing real time, money, and energy into something that isn’t guaranteed.

Going after your dreams is scary AF, not going after them is far worse. Don’t you think having massive crushing regret is far worse than temporary fear?

Let me help you move out of this stagnant purgatory-like state and into motion. Remember a body in motion stays in motion. When we stay stuck….mold, bacteria, and scum festers. I’ve been there….it gets real ugly you guys.

Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of making BIG money. A former NBC and CBS TV journalist, turned multi-millionaire entrepreneur, teaching you all things wealth, health, worth, and business. You can follow Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany  on Facebook @projectmewithtiffany and watch her TV episodes on ProjectME TV with Tiffany Carter on YouTube.

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