The Dark Side of the Wellness & Fitness World with Cover Model & Fitness Entrepreneur Ashley Wiens

March 13, 2023
Business Mindset, Money, Podcast, Podcast Past, Success, Tips

Ashley Wiens pulls back the curtain on the Wellness and Professional Fitness World

It appeared from the outside that she had everything, the body, the success, and the lifestyle that everyone wanted. However, the reality was a little different. Despite her best efforts, Ashley Weins could not live and enjoy her life because of the professional fitness world. As she became obsessed with working out and eating, she gave up things that brought her joy.

She realized something needed to change after almost missing her brother’s wedding as she had to train for her next competition. This was not a lifestyle she wanted to continue living. She shares her journey through the darker side of wellness and professional fitness and how she overcame her fear of leaving this lifestyle to enjoy a happy and healthy life.

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You have two choices.

You have to choose which is more important to you…

Staying comfortable and settling for the life you have right now.

Having the lifestyle and business you want, so you’ll take the risk, and do the damn thing.

It is that simple and it is that hard. This is why so many people who come to me are “STUCK.”

It shows up in the form of feeling confused, overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, exhausted, procrastinating, and even resentful.

“Tiff I’m not happy and I want to stop doing ____ in my business and start doing _____ but I don’t even know where to start.”
“Ugh, I dread going to work, and I know I need to make a change but it all seems like too much and then I do nothing.”
“I’m afraid if I leave ______ and stop doing ______ I will lose everything.” (this is what my guest on today’s pod interview said to me 2 years ago)

You are torturing yourself daily by being torn between saying comfortably uncomfortable in the life you know, while deeply yearning for the life you want…but not wanting to take the necessary risks and scary actions to get it.

It’s like you are looking through a chain link fence seeing all of these happy successful people, who have wanted, and it’s right there for you BUT you must climb over that tall fence. It looks so giant, to the point your brain tries to convince you that it isn’t possible for you.

What always helps me is hearing from people who’ve climbed that fence, and why it is all worth it. Today’s interview is pure evidence of why NOW is the time to do it, and choosing yourself is the best investment you will ever make in your life.

Follow Ashley on Instagram @fitfabash

Website www.ashleywiensfitness.com for help or guidance with how to create a sustainable fitness and nutrition lifestyle.

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