Real Talk around Self-Doubt: Who am I to do this and Why would anyone listen to me? EP309


“Why would anyone listen to me?”

My heart still drops every time I hear one of you say this to me. I think it’s because I used to feel that same exact way. Like, why would anyone hire me or listen to me when they could work with (insert anyone who had more money, years of experience, degrees, press, followers) than me. 

Here’s the thing…we can all hear the same message our entire lives, but somehow when we read it or hear it fromm a certain person, it just hits differently.

Sometimes for you, I’m that person…Other times I’ve shared the same thing with you 100 times, and then you tell me something amazing you learned from reading a book, which is the same damn thing I’d been telling you. For whatever reason, you were able to absorb it at that specific time from that specific person.

Who you are as a person, the life you have led, your energy, your vibe, your communication style, your lifestyle will be so relatable to some people and not at all to others. This relatability and sense of trust is what allows YOUR people to lean into you, and know they have to work with you.

For some people, I have too much success and it feels so far out of reach for them, it makes them uncomfortable to learn from me. There are others who admire and respect that about me, and it makes them feel safe. 

This is why there is room for Health Coach number 3,457,000 and Realtor number 27,450,000, and book number 187,000.000 to be newly published.

You wouldn’t have this dream on your heart and soul for all of this time, if you weren’t meant do something with it. 

Let me help you deeply rewire your belief system, so you can confidently see that you are needed. You are meant to do this. You are capable of it. And it is happening for the greatest good of all. 

Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of making BIG money? A former NBC and CBS TV journalist, turned multi-millionaire entrepreneur, teaching you all things wealth, health, worth, and business. You can follow Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany  on Facebook @projectmewithtiffany and watch her TV episodes on ProjectME TV with Tiffany Carter on YouTube.

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