[ MINDSET RESET ] When you Feel like Quitting Life!!! EP378

 “You’re crazy if you think this will work, this was a huge mistake.”

As I was sitting in the Southern California sun this past Sunday, enjoying an overpriced kale-avocado wrap at a cute cafe, my brain should have been blissfully happy…instead it was LOUD and NASTY.

This inner bully of mine gets so intense when I’m going after new and bigger things, I start thinking I’m schizophrenic.

The voice is my head is so loud and clear…then my higher self starts talking back to it (as I’ve trained it to do) then a shouting match starts in my brain. 

It’s exhausting and often paralyzing.

What saves me is I know this is all happening simply because I’m scared. I then detach from that nasty bully, and see her as a terrified girl lashing out.

I softly and lovingly ask her, “What would help you feel more secure and supported right now?” 

(Sometimes I do this as a writing exercise, and sometimes I have this full conversation out loud.)

Her answer on Sunday was, “I don’t know, but I don’t want to feel this way.”

So I spoke to her as I would speak to a frightened highly anxious 11 year-old…gently and with love. 

“It’s ok to feel scared, this is scary stuff, we’ve never invested this much money before into our business, and we could lose it all…that is the risk we were willing to take. I promise whatever happens, we will be better for it, and we can go as slow as needed for you to feel safe.”

We both took a deep breath with a long sigh, and took ourselves on a walk to our favorite palm tree lined street. 

If I was so compelled to share this raw story with you, I know there are some of you who needed to hear this right now. 

I see you. I get it. I love you. It will all work out exactly as it’s suppose to. 

>>CLOSING SOON<<

My Exclusive 2-Month Private Business Coaching Program Application:

 APPLY HERE

*NEW Guided Walking Abundance Meditation Series: FREE for a limited time! projectmewithtiffany.com/GuidedMeditation

Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of making BIG money? A former NBC and CBS TV journalist, turned multi-millionaire entrepreneur, teaching you all things wealth, health, worth, and business. You can follow Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany  on Facebook @projectmewithtiffany and watch her TV episodes on ProjectME TV with Tiffany Carter on YouTube.

Subscribe to Tiffany’s FREE weekly digest, The Secret Posse, and get exclusive content you won’t find anywhere else: millionaire mindset exercises, custom weekly abundance affirmations, and her best money making tips.

Recent Episodes

Ep 783 Money, Fear & Your Nervous System: What’s Really Controlling Your Income PART TWO: FLIGHT RESPONSE

You tell yourself you’ll deal with it later.
You’ll check your numbers tomorrow.
You’ll follow up next week.
You’ll finally get clear on your money “when things calm down.”

But that moment never seems to come.
And instead… you stay busy doing everything else.

In this episode, we’re breaking down the flight response with money — the pattern that looks like procrastination, distraction, or “being busy,” but is actually your nervous system trying to avoid discomfort.

This is part of a special series on money, fear, and your nervous system, where we uncover how fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses shape your income, business decisions, and ability to receive more.

Because avoiding money doesn’t mean you don’t care about it.
It usually means, on a deeper level…
it doesn’t feel safe.

LISTEN NOW »

Ep 782 Money, Fear & Your Nervous System: What’s Really Controlling Your Income PART ONE: FIGHT RESPONSE

You’ve been told your drive is the reason you’ll succeed.
So you push harder.
You do more.
You try to control every outcome.

But what if that “hustle” is actually a nervous system response to fear…
and the very thing keeping money feeling stressful, inconsistent, or just out of reach?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the fight response with money — how it shows up, why it gets rewarded, and how it can quietly block your ability to receive more.

This is part of a special series on money, fear, and your nervous system, where we unpack how fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses impact your income, business growth, and financial patterns.

Because making more money isn’t just strategy.
It’s about whether your body feels safe to hold it.

LISTEN NOW »

Ep 781 3 Ways You’re Blocking Your Quantum Leap (Why It’s Not Clicking Yet)

Have you ever felt like you’re doing everything right… but it’s still not clicking?

Like you’re on the edge of a breakthrough, a quantum leap, or a major level up — but instead of momentum, things feel off, unclear, or harder than they should?

This is one of the most common and misunderstood phases in manifestation, business growth, and identity shifts.

And it’s exactly where most people unknowingly block their next level.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the 3 ways people delay their quantum leap — why you feel stuck before a breakthrough, how resistance and control show up, and why discomfort is often the sign you’re expanding… not failing.

If you’ve been questioning why your manifestation isn’t working, why your business or money isn’t growing the way you expected, or why everything feels like it’s not clicking yet — this will give you the clarity you’ve been missing.

LISTEN NOW »