MINDSET RESET: Getting Down to the Bottom of What is Holding you Back from Building your Dream Life EP368

Doing things without any intention is like taking a road drip with zero destinations. 

It’s so funny how we show up differently for other people’s goals than our own.

If your kid or a friend’s kid said they really wanted to make the basketball team, guaranteed you would kick into ‘plan of action’ mode and map out the next necessary steps to make that a reality for them.

If you didn’t know boo about sports, you would ask people, go to Google town, post about it on social, talk to the basketball coach at school, anything and everything necessary to help make this kid’s dream a reality, right??

But when it comes to your dreams and goals, the story shifts, the determination quickly disappears, and the actions are half-ass at best. 

WHY?? It boils down to belief. YOU BELIEVE WITH 100% CERTAINTY that this kid has a shot of making the basketball team, whether he is (or she is) super coordinated or a complete klutz. 

Even if you kinda know the chances are slim, you BELIEVE WITH 100% CERTAINTY that this kid deserves a shot, and the last thing you would do is crap on a kid’s dream, and tell them, “oh you will never make it, so don’t bother.”

That would be emotional abuse!!!!!

Your dreams and desired life is coming directly from your inner child, and by you not taking it 100% seriously and believing in her with 100% certainty, you are crushing her spirit DAILY. 

Instead speak to her as a loving parent, tell her, “We will do everything in our power to make this happen for you, and never give up.” 

Show up for that little girl in you, just as you would show up for your own kid’s dream…

  • with conviction
  • with unwavering determination
  • with willingness to be resourceful
  • with an attitude of “this is happening”
  • with a belief of 100% certainty that you deserve a shot

Surround yourself with people who also believe you deserve a shot, and have 100% certainty that THIS IS POSSIBLE FOR YOU. If you don’t have these people in your life right now, that’s OK, cuz you have YOU….and the belief must come from your first!

What actions and risks would you take for this kid? How soon would you start taking action on the plan?

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