Learn How to Remove and Manage the Fear of Being Judged EP196

Fill in the blank: I am too ________________ to be successful as a _______________.

The crap our inner bullies try to relentlessly convince us of shatters more dreams, hopes, visions, brilliant ideas, and life force than everything else or anyone else.

Can I get an AMEN?!!!!

This exact fill in the blank statement is the reason why I was resistant to starting ProjectME with Tiffany Carter.

It didn’t matter that I was already a successful 7-figure entrepreneur for ten years.

It didn’t matter that I was a marketing, branding and sales expert.

It didn’t matter that I was a professionally trained former TV Newscaster and knew how to show up on video and on stage.

It didn’t matter that I graduated at the top of my class in college, and went on to get numerous “impressive” credentials and awards.

My inner bully was running the show and had me convinced that I was:

-Too fat to be successful as an empowerment mentor and public figure

-Too introverted to gain traction in a new industry and make connections and network with people.

-Too sensitive and insecure to handle any haters on social media or people not liking my work

-Too blunt and direct to be a successful coach outside of the big corporate world

-Too unknown to make any traction and stand out when there are so many podcasts already and personal brands

Guess what? None of those thoughts went away when I ripped off the years-old Band-Aid…if I had kept waiting for those thoughts and beliefs to go away, I would have NEVER STARTED.

I did the damn thing anyway…wobbly, insecure, doubtful, terrified, awkward AF, sensitive, and anxious. Each day I would rip off that Band-Aid again…as weeks passed I no longer needed to rip it off, it peeled off easily. As more weeks passed, the wound started to heal, and no Band-Aid was needed at all.

Now you see how I am today, two years later….all that is left is a faint scar to keep me humble. I’m here to help guide you to rip off your own Band-Aid every damn day.

For a short time, I have decided to open a few additional private business-coaching spots for people who know they want more, but are stuck with the Band-Aids on.

To apply visit www.projectmewithtiffany.com

Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of making BIG money. A former NBC and CBS TV journalist, turned multi-millionaire entrepreneur, teaching you all things wealth, health, worth, and business. You can follow Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany on Facebook @projectmewithtiffany and watch her TV episodes on ProjectME TV with Tiffany Carter on YouTube.

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