How to Stop Caring what Other People Think, so You Can Shine and Succeed EP140


“There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” (Aristotle)

Hard truth, but if you know me, that is my job, my service to you, is to tell you the truth out of love in order to help you achieve your dream business and life.

At least one time on every private coaching call I do, a client is in resistance against doing something that would greatly grow their business and bank account, because of what other people (general or specific) will think, will say, will believe.

First of all, it is none of our business what other people think about us. What someone choses to think is their right, just as it is ours to think that people shouldn’t wear socks with sandals, wear giant broom-like eyelashes, or swear and talk about God (what I get criticized on the most).

I also know simply telling you this isn’t going to make the fear disappear. I know because up until recently, I cared too much about what certain people would think (mostly my mom).

Now I’m at a place of not giving AF, in a good way. I want to help you get to that #zerofucks zone too; as it is one of the most freeing gifts I’ve given to my self, to my business, and to all of you.

Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of making BIG money. A former NBC and CBS TV journalist, turned multi-millionaire entrepreneur, teaching you all things wealth, health, worth, and business. You can follow Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany  on Facebook @projectmewithtiffany and watch her TV episodes on ProjectME TV with Tiffany Carter on YouTube.

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