How High Performers Self Sabotage Themselves out of Massive Success [Money Trauma Series] EP454

Avoiding the “hard” is sabotaging your success. 

Over the last 15 years, I’ve coached, mentored, and consulted with thousands of people. One thing that is true about every one of those people is they all have blind spots, and they all carry a self-sabotaging behavior. 

There are two types of people: 

  • Person A: You may not think you have one. 
  • Person B: You may know for sure that you do, but aren’t sure how to stop it. 

Most of my clients identify as high performers and extremely self-aware. Yet they are stumped as to why their business isn’t growing faster, or why everything feels so hard for them and looks easy for everyone else. 

A great place to start is to look at what you’re avoiding in your life. 

What do you tend to put off? 

What do you say you know you need to do and then you don’t? 

When we avoid, it is our attempt to delay some kind of perceived pain, discomfort, or life disruption.

If you knew for certain it would work out for your greatest good, then why haven’t you gone ALL IN with it yet? 

Let’s explore this deeper together.



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